on judging a personPosted on February 29th, 2008 @ 6:14 pm
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Have you ever thought that you knew a person so well and seen the person as a shallow, or somewhat you thought you wouldn’t get a good advice from? Or rather someone you thought won’t give that much useful input in solving a personal life problem? Well I did. 
I have this two good friends. I don’t give them much details about my life. Specially about problems with me and my boyfriend. Thing is, when they learned about our recent argument, it was really that complicated because it’s not only the two of us involve (me and bf) but also another person, and those two were actually the ones who gave me the most uplifting words. Their advices made me think, really hard. And they were the only people who made a significance on solving our problem. They impressed me so much. 
have you ever encounter people like that?
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Pat, 21, in♥, taken,
February 29th, 2008 at 9:09 pm
I guess that this can really show you how dangerous it can be to judge someone before you really know them well. AND even if you do know them well, you can still be wrong about their character in certain situations! I mean, just because these two were helpful in this situation doesn’t mean that they will always be helpful! But the positive is that it shows how great it can be to branch out and take a risk and trust people you wouldn’t ordinarily trust to give you advice! :) I’m just glad they could help you! :smile:
March 1st, 2008 at 12:48 pm
nangyari na rin yan sakin sis, yung mga unexpected na tao sa life ko, sila pa yung nagbibigay ng magandang advice =) buti naman at natulungan ka nila sis :) kumusta ka na ngayon? ok ka na ba sis? missyou ingats =)
March 1st, 2008 at 4:24 pm
Yeah, I actually did, haha. :))
March 2nd, 2008 at 10:12 am
naranasan ko na yan sis pat :) sometimes yung inaasan mo na tutulong eh hindi tutulong sayo, tapos yung mga hindi mo pa ineexpect yung laging nandyan for you :D
March 2nd, 2008 at 10:55 am
Yeah, these people become your best friends for life. :) That’s just how best friends occur. It usually takes time to tell your personal things to people. Most of the time, we usually don’t get what we expect, but when you do, you know you have found a good friend. :)
March 2nd, 2008 at 3:26 pm
yep! pero doon nagsisimula ang napakagandang pagkakaibigan. kaya nga maganda kapag ang bestf mo hinde muna kayo ganung magkasundo… kasi don magpapack yun napakagandang samahan… hehhee
March 2nd, 2008 at 4:14 pm
Yes. Nagkaroon na ako ng experience na ganun.. and it’s really good noh>? Ang gaan sa feeling .. yumbang nakakamangha na nasabi nya yung mga bagay na yun? hehe ;) Hhmm, ate.. ingat and goodluck! mwa :*
March 2nd, 2008 at 9:22 pm
Yep. once. friend ko in college. I was really not that comfortable sharing my problems in life saknya. not until i got to know her better and sya ang naging kasama ko sa lahat ng problems ko.. i mean she was always there for me aside from my friends. ayun.. so yeah, mahirap talaga mag judge sa isang person na hindi mo pa naman ganun kakilala.
March 3rd, 2008 at 2:14 am
yea.. same thing happened to me before.. there are some people whom you knew you already know them from head to toe, but you will later on realize na hindi pa pala.. :smile:
with regards sa bf mo, same views sa akin.. but most of the time, pag my prob ako with him, kinakausap ko yung pinaka-close na tao sa aming dalawa.. :smile:
March 3rd, 2008 at 3:52 pm
nkuh ganyan minsan sis, hindi talaga natin msasabi at makikilala ang isang tao kapag nahusgahan agad ng mali. pero hinay hinay pa rin sa pagtitiwala mahirap magkamali sa pagbibigyan ng tiwala.
March 4th, 2008 at 5:39 am
When it comes to personal issues, I’m pretty restrained. I’ll tell my best friend and possibly my other 2 closest girlfriends, but that’s it. So I’ve never really experienced that. But I guess it would be nice, lol.
March 5th, 2008 at 12:34 pm
I’m glad that you have some great friends like that! =) I’ve had people like that in my life before. It’s nice to have another insight on something.
March 7th, 2008 at 3:07 am
Aww it’s really nice to know you have people you can confide in – that’s a special thing, don’t let it go! =) I hope that whatever this problem may be.. that you’ll be able to resolve it. I hope you’re okay =)
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